It all started when I received an email from a 15 year old young man dealing with an unknown disease. In his email he mentioned how people are much meaner and critical these days and it’s really hard for him to make friends. As a result, he fells a sense of unworthiness, despair and loneliness.
Why he emailed me
He reached out to me because he was familiar with my daughter’s story and he wanted to heal naturally.
In case you don’t know
When my daughter was 13 years old, she was diagnosed with a rare form of brain cancer. We decided not to pursue chemo or radiation. Instead she healed herself naturally. More info.
Here’s what I told him
People can be really mean, but here’s what they don’t realize. When they are mean to you, they are actually telling you how they are feeling on the inside about themselves. Don’t take it personally. It has nothing to do with you.
Have you ever heard of the expression … it takes one to know one?
They know it and that is why they are saying it. When they are critical of you, I want you to remember they are really being critical of themselves.
As it turns out
They are sharing a secret with you and they don’t even realize it. You are a mirror for them.
If you are triggering them and they become critical of you, it’s their problem not yours.
Think about it
You are not doing anything wrong. You don’t have to absorb any of the negative words because none of them are meant for you.
Here’s what to do
Next time someone gets triggered by you or criticizes you, try to feel compassion for them because you’ll know the pain they are dealing with. It takes practice.
Here’s the flip-side
When you get triggered, the other person (who’s triggering you) is your mirror. When that happens, you need to look deep within yourself and do the inner work.
May I ask …
Could you please provide some words of encouragement for this young man in the comments below? I would love to hear from you.
Maria Sherow is an experienced past life regressionist specializing in QHHT® serving the Big Island of Hawaii. QHHT® (Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique℠) is the process of communicating directly with your Higher Self using a breakthrough past life regression method developed by Dolores Cannon to facilitate emotional and physical healing.
She is passionate about the QHHT® work because she sees the importance in healing others as well as a tool to gather lost historical knowledge. She looks forward to helping you find the many answers that may be hidden in your past lives. For more information or to schedule a session, please visit www.MariaSherow.com
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